"To Dear ladies...From another woman"A letter before Womens' day celebration.

Dear ladies,

Womens' day just around the corner. After few days there will be so many posts related to women and womanhood etc...My post is not to hurt anyone or may be am wrong but whatever I feel is, most of the time in everyday life, am attacked by the women only... Such as- teasing, hating, mocking, discouraging, blaming, backstabbing, over curiosity etc...Why always blaming men?Even I feel comfortable discussing my problems with my dad and husband only... Am not telling that men are flawless but "Dear women" please be affectionate towards the other women in their crisis.. If a woman s not supporting another woman then how you can expect that this country will be safe for us?

Neighbourhood aunties, our female in laws and relatives are more dangerous than the uncles for sure. Our female friends are too much over curious about our personal life or the disasters of our life.

My dear mothers do not let your daughters to quit schools or colleges;

Please do not support the early marriage of your daughter as because she has become a burden to you.

Dear ladies please do not say - "Her clothes are inviting attention.She is a slut.." when guys tease a girl wearing short skirts or crop top. Shout out loud at that time.

Dear ladies let women work outside peacefully.

Dear ladies please do not blame the woman only for her divorce. May be she is guilty but before knowing the real story please do not blame or judge anybody.Either the man or the woman. It is their personal life.

Dear ladies, a woman's life style can be different than yours. May be she doesn't want a typical life style.May be she doesn't wanna marry or have kids. It doesn't make the person an "Alien"...

Dear ladies, if somebody is in a distance relationship, please do not ask her questions like-"What about your sex life?" May be that is soooooooooooo personal to ask....

Dear ladies stop hating a widow. Stop calling her unlucky. Mr. Ishwar Chandra Vidyasagar in 20th century proved this wrong and we are living in 21st century. Her husband is dead but can you feel that she is dying everyday and every moment?

Dear ladies stop hating a lady who is unable to be a mother. Stop calling her in different nasty names.

Dear ladies, stop envying the woman who is more fashionable than you as well as stop calling someone a "Bahenji" who wears non branded Indian clothes.

Dear ladies stop blaming a rape or acid attack victim for the consequence. Do not stop the victim to report to the police station.Support her in each and every single step.

Please be a little bit sensible. Please be a little bit affectionate.

Wishing you a very happy Womens' Day.

Yours faithfully

Another woman.